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The Adoption Process: A Complete Guide to Building Your Family

You deserve to know the love and joy that comes with holding a newborn baby in your arms. At the end of the adoption process, that's what you'll experience. But not all adoption journeys are created equal, and understanding what makes the difference could save you years of waiting and thousands of dollars.

What If Your Dream of Parenthood Could Start Today?

After helping families build their families through adoption since 1991, we've learned that successful adoption comes down to four key things—finding committed birth mothers, having experienced people guide you, handling the legal side properly, and protecting you financially when challenges arise.

These aren't just nice-to-haves—they're what separates families who welcome their babies home from those who wait indefinitely or give up entirely. When these four things work together, families move through their journey faster and with less stress. When they're missing, families face heartbreak: losing money on failed matches, endless waiting, and sometimes abandoning their dreams altogether.

Want to understand these four essentials in detail? [Learn about What Makes Adoption Successful →] [Link to 4 Pillars / Keys Page on Nav]

Your 5-Step Adoption Journey: From Hope to Holding Your Baby

As your guide from start to finish, we'll walk you through each step designed to move you confidently toward your baby:

Step 1: Get Started with Your Complete Support Team

From the moment you contact us, you'll have a dedicated adoption specialist and access to our complete team of experts who stay with you until you're holding your baby.

What happens when you get started:

  • Your specialist gives you honest wait time expectations based on our experience helping thousands of families
  • You'll understand all costs upfront, including financial protection when matches don't work out
  • Our team handles everything from finding birth mothers to legal compliance across all states where we're licensed
  • You get support that has already protected families from more than $4.6 million in potential losses

Why this matters: Unlike consultants who disappear halfway through, you get a dedicated specialist plus our entire team's expertise. You'll never wonder who to call or whether someone will be there when you need help.

Step 2: Understand Your Timeline and What to Expect

We give you realistic expectations about your wait time based on our actual results with families like yours, not industry guesswork.

What you can count on:

  • Wait time estimates based on real results with families like yours
  • Clear understanding of how your family profile will connect with birth mothers
  • Honest timelines that factor in your specific hopes and requirements
  • Transparent picture of what might affect your timeline

Why this matters: After working with thousands of families, we know how to set realistic expectations that help you stay hopeful without getting discouraged.

Step 3: Receive Your Life-Changing Match Call

When a birth mother chooses your family, you'll get one of the most incredible phone calls of your life. This is when everything you've been hoping for starts becoming real.

What happens during this amazing moment:

  • Your specialist walks you through the opportunity, drawing on our experience with thousands of previous matches
  • You'll learn about the birth mother's story, timeline, and what made her choose your family
  • Our counselors help you ask the right questions and think through the opportunity
  • Our legal team ensures everything is handled properly from day one
  • You'll have time to discuss as a family while we help you understand what to consider

Why this matters: This call represents years of hoping finally coming together, and you'll have experienced guides who've walked thousands of families through this exact moment.

Step 4: Build Your Relationship with Your Birth Mother

Most adoptions today involve ongoing relationships between families and birth mothers. We'll help you navigate this new relationship while supporting both you and your birth mother throughout the process.

How we guide you:

  • Our experienced counselors help both you and your birth mother navigate this relationship
  • Our legal team handles all agreements properly, even across state lines
  • You stay financially protected throughout the relationship
  • Your specialist facilitates conversations and works through any challenges

Why this matters: While many agencies introduce you and leave you on your own, we provide ongoing support because we understand how these relationships work best.

Step 5: Welcome Your Baby Home

There are no words for what it feels like to hold your baby for the first time. This moment is the result of everything working together—our outreach bringing you together, our team guiding every decision, and our protection keeping you moving forward.

What this represents: All the pieces we put in place from day one coming together perfectly, the relationship we helped you build reaching this beautiful conclusion, and years of hoping finally becoming reality.

Why this feels incredible: Instead of holding your breath and hoping everything works out, you can fully embrace this moment, knowing it's the result of a proven process we've guided thousands of families through.

Your Journey Starts Here

You now understand why some families meet their babies quickly while others struggle for years. It's not about luck—it's about having the right guides from the beginning.

We've spent decades perfecting this process because we know what's at stake: your dream of becoming a family. When great outreach, experienced guidance, solid legal work, and financial protection work together, adoption becomes a clear path to your child.

As your guides through every step, we'll make sure your adoption journey becomes exactly what it should be: your journey home to the child who's meant to be yours.

Ready to start your journey with experienced guides? Contact us today and let's take the first step toward completing your adoption together.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Do we need to retain our own attorney?

No, American Adoptions has established relationships with some of the best adoption attorneys in the nation. Because adoption laws vary from state to state and between counties, it is important to utilize the services of an adoption attorney who specializes in the state where the adoption will finalize, which is unknown until you match with an expectant mother. You have the right to retain your own attorney, but doing so may be an additional, unnecessary expense.

Can we choose the gender of our baby?

American Adoptions does not allow gender specificity in adoption. Any family who wishes to be gender-specific in their adoption should contact us at 1-800-ADOPTION and ask about the possibility of an exception waiver before taking any other steps toward adoption with our agency. Any families who do receive an exception to be gender-specific may also incur an additional fee, which helps cover the additional advertising costs of such a request.

Please note that gender specificity will likely increase your wait time significantly.

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